“How
can I thank You, Lord?” “Listen… and let Me love you!”
Jesus once said his Father in
heaven has sent him to bring us Good News. There are many of his words that
really pick us up – they are Good News. Now,
what about this story he tells us today – how does it strike you? Do you feel
good about it? Maybe something struck you and your mind wandered… thinking
about what happened before you came here, or about what you’ll do when you leave,
or thinking about someone…. Or maybe like I’ve often done, you couldn’t help
but put yourself in the place of the poor guy without the wedding garment. Can
you imagine following the crowd and finding yourself in a wedding hall where
you don’t know anyone and realizing you’re not even dressed for it? How
embarrassing! It takes time to get ready for a wedding, and the more you love
the newlyweds, the more time you take to make yourself look beautiful and
joyful.
Still, it’s easy enough to get
psyched up for a wedding. What about Thanksgiving that our society celebrates
this weekend? It’s easy enough to feel grateful and to thank a person right
away when they gift me with something, with their time or with themselves. It wouldn’t
be proper to wait for this occasion once a year to thank all those people who
all year give me life and make me feel special. So how can we celebrate
thanksgiving? Maybe right now it’s difficult for me to find something to be
thankful for… maybe someone I love is having a hard time for some reason, and I’m
praying for something good to happen, but right now, I’ve got nothing to feel
thankful for. So now what?
Isaiah the prophet, about 2,500
years ago – that’s a long time! – he felt close to God, and he was convinced
that the Lord’s hand rested on the mountain where Jerusalem is built – he was
convinced that God would prepare a banquet there for his people. Do you think
they’re still waiting? His people were exiles, refugees you might say, but God
kept his promise: they returned to the holy mountain – the place where God
meets his people. God cares about his people. What about Israel today? What about
Ireland? El Salvador? What about all those people at war or under oppression? What
about us? Does God care about us, about our suffering? How do we know that He
cares?
Do you think we can ask Him?... “Lord,
if you really care about us, please let us know so we can feel thankful in our
heart. Amen.”
Jesus tells us that the Father is
constantly inviting us to accept from him the gift of life – the joy of the
wedding feast. So, who’s getting married, already?... would you believe us and
God?
St. Paul boasts that there is
nothing he cannot master with the help of the One who gives him strength? He must
have been getting a lot of strength! And yet, Paul cares enough to thank the
Philippians for having kindly remembered him at a time when the Roman police
were giving him a hard time. Where was Jesus for them? In Paul’s own heart
giving him strength; in his friends showing that they care; in Paul – letting them
know he appreciates their gesture of caring. Where is God in our life? In the
lives of those we love, those we meet?
Isaiah told his people that God
would soon save all peoples: delivering them from exile, destroying death,
wiping away their tears and taking away their shame. In the Psalm today, we
ourselves prayed to the Lord as the One who provides, who revives, who guides and
comforts, who prepares a banquet and anoints with oil, who blesses forever.
In what ways then, is the Lord
doing these things? Think for a moment of a wedding you attended or a happy
person you know. The bride and groom are really joyful… what do they do with
this joy? They spread it around, don’t they? Just to be there, and for them to
look at you, makes you feel like a whole new person!
Well it’s the same with God and us:
in Jesus God is s close to us as the Groom and his Bride – they just know they
are loved – they see it in each other’s eyes! The Breath of God in our hearts
invites us to look to him with the eyes of our heart – He wants us to know we
are loved, to feel his presence in our lives. He invites us to take a few
moments each day to slow down, to listen to our heart, even if it’s upset; -
underneath the tiredness, hurt or anger, Jesus is there, looking at us with
eyes of love…. Yes, but sometimes I have “icky” thoughts or feelings in my
heart and I’m embarrassed to pray! Jesus sees all that, and it makes him love
us even more, because we need his love all the more.
To be without a wedding garment
means not to care about the Bride and the Groom. For our love relationship with
God, in Jesus, not to care means not to take the time to listen to Him in our
heart. To take the time means to accept the not-so-nice things we might find in
our heart – because Jesus loves us and wants to give us the strength to look at
these things, to accept that they’re mine… and slowly, He’ll help us make our
heart a more beautiful place for everyone to be and to feel welcome we’re the
Bride of God. He wants to make us happy, and he wants us to help him to wipe
away those tears on the cheeks of someone close by. He wants us to help him
share with someone the Good News that their life means something to us. He wants
us to have a lot to be thankful for….
“How can I thank You, Lord?”
“Listen to Me in your heart… let Me
love you and let Me love others with you. Let Me give you Life in My Family!”
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