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Jesus invites us to be real and honest with God and accept his friendship. - January 29th, 2023 - 4th Sunday in Ordinary Time - The L.S.M. of C.A.M. at St. Willibrord Church, Verdun

In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so please feel free to share with others these homilies and your own personal faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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  4th Sunday in Ordinary Time  

VOCATION: Jesus calls us - He calls us to follow Him, to be filled with the Holy Spirit, and to become a missionary disciple.... 

 Homily MP3 version - PDF Sacred History Reflection on My Life 

What are the offerings that we bring to God? What is the meaning of "HOSANNAH!" We acclaim God for his greatness and praise Him, while at the same time calling upon Him to rescue us in our distress.... "HOSANNAH!" MP3 version 


A few afterthoughts from the homily....

The Word of the Lord speaks to us today a lot about humility... a virtue, attitude, perspective on life which we find everywhere in the Bible, both Old and New Testaments. Have you ever thought much about humility? What does humility have to do with anything in your real life? What difference does it make, or can it make, in your family, home life, at school or at work, with your friends, out in society at large? Why does God insist so much on it?

This is simply because God's attitude from the beginning towards us human beings, and why He created us male and female to begin with, is that the Most Holy Trinity are forever offering us to enter into friendship with them. God is inviting us to enter into and to participate in the intimate life of the Most Holy Trinity, and to do so by way of friendship.

Friendship is a relationship based in complete freedom and it is always a gift which can never be demanded, bought or sold, or expected. To enter into friendship with anyone, we need to be honest with ourselves as well as with them. This is what humility is all about, accepting the truth about ourselves rather than living in an illusion of what we would like to be or how we would like others to see us. 

Jesus goes so far as to actually offer us to enter into partnership with Him - this is the meaning of the "gentle yoke" He offers us - He offers to be our "first reference" in our Marriage, family life, business enterprises, work or school, in all that we do. Imagine how different our life could be if we accept Jesus' offer and do nothing, make no decisions, without Him, without consulting Him in prayer first!

A humble person can of course improve themselves and grow; they simply refuse to entertain any illusions about their actual conditions and circumstances at any given moment. As we do admit our own truth to ourselves, we become aware of our shortcomings, our faults and failures, and our sins. Sins are the ways in which we shut God out or shut others out of our mind, heart, or soul. We sin whenever we enter into illusions of life rather than the reality of life, or when we try to grab for ourselves that which can only be given as gift. We sin when we refuse to accept the love of others, humans and God, or when we demand that they love us on our terms rather than in the freedom which is theirs.

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In the "New Covenant" made by our Creator God with humanity, as reported in Jeremiah 31:31-34, every human being can know God from within - because the Holy Spirit is revealing our Creator to all who are willing to know the Lord and trust in Him. We can still help each other along the way; so please feel free to share with others these homilies and your own personal faith in God through Jesus Christ. G.S.

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God continues to pour out his Holy Spirit on mankind - we are free to accept or refuse - Pentecost Sunday - LSM sponsored by CAM - May 23rd, 2021 - OLF Parish

Fr. Gilles' Homily followed by Pope Francis' Homily for Pentecost  

     Homily MP3 version                                 Homily PDF version      


So, this evening you’re going to be treated to two homilies. I will only give one, but I have a few copies printed of Pope Francis’ homily which he gave today, that was quite remarkable. I was actually tempted to read it, but the Holy Spirit said “No. No. You give your homily and we’ll take care of the rest. So, there you are.

So, what happened all those centuries ago on the day of Pentecost, which was a feast that the Jews normally celebrated to anticipate the harvest and to give thanks and worship to God. The Lord used it to perfect all the work that He had been doing with his people for centuries before. When we read the Bible, the Old Testament, the Jewish Scriptures, we see once in a while a man or a woman stand out because God chose them for a particular purpose, and the Holy Spirit gave them strength, you know. Something happened to them. They changed and they suddenly became courageous, strong, and they had the power from above to do a very difficult thing that God was calling them to do. But these people were exceptional. What Pentecost manifested was God’s promise all those centuries that the day would come when He would pour out his Spirit on all mankind – not just the chosen, not just the Christians, not just the Catholics – but on the whole of mankind. We need to really get with that program. God wants to pour Himself out on all of mankind.

Now what is it that happens when the Holy Spirit fills a human being? What is that? Well, over the centuries the saints, the prophets, and the bishops, the fathers of the Church were given by the Holy Spirit to preach and teach all kinds of images to help us understand. One beautiful image is that of dew – I think it was St. Irenaeus, but don’t count on that, my memory is not that good – where would our world be without water? Nothing would grow. We ourselves would die within at most a month without water.

In the life of the spirit, in the interior life we carry within us an immortal soul, a spirit; we are flesh and spirit. Our spirit also needs dew or moisture – that’s the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is the life, the vitality, the power, the love that is in the Trinity: the relationship between the Father and the Son is a Person, the Holy Spirit. And God created us in such a way that He would be able to pour into us a sharing in that vitality, that life, that dew, that moisture, that living water that is in God. We are created to contain that Living Water, but not as in a jar with the lid tightly closed.

If we try to contain and keep to ourselves the life, the Living Water from God, it doesn’t work, and we ourselves dry up and atrophy. We cannot keep for ourselves the Holy Spirit. That is why the 120 apostles and disciples, men and woman who surrounded Mary and did as Jesus told them to do and waited and prayed and prayed and waited for ten days after the Ascension. That’s why when the Holy Spirit came upon them – watch out! You know – I mean they went berserk in a good way, filled with joy and enthusiasm and they couldn’t shut up. And it was strange, you know, because all the people in Jerusalem for the Pentecost feast heard the commotion – first they heard the noise of the wind and then they heard the commotion, and they were all astonished to hear them speaking in their own language.

Well, in the same way that rain and moisture produce different life and vitality and fruit in different kinds of trees according to their nature; in the same way we all drink water but it does different things in each of us according to our nature, our individuality; so, it is that the Holy Spirit in each person produces what the Holy Spirit wants to produce according to who we are. So, a person depressed is lifted up by the Holy Spirit, someone wounded is healed, someone crippled can walk again, someone blind can see again, someone who’s afraid of their shadow becomes bold and courageous; and this happens the moment we step out of ourselves.

If we try to keep the Holy Spirit and tighten the lid on the jar, nothing happens, but if we take a step, if we don’t know what we’re going to say but we open our mouth anyway and start talking; then the Holy Spirit bursts and wonderful things happen. That’s what Catholic Action Montreal is all about, is providing a venue, a template, an interface, a possibility for people to see occasions to do that very thing: to step out and come to the aid of someone in need and share their gifts.

Why do we not see the world being transformed right now in the same way that happened that first Pentecost? Is it because God doesn’t want to do it anymore? Is it because God is tired or has gone on vacation, or is asleep? I don’t think so. It’s really because of us. The amazing thing, the almost unbelievable thing about God the Holy Trinity is the degree, the almost fanatical degree to which God respects the freedom He has given to each and every one of us. We could say God has accepted to handicap Himself according to the sum total of our handicaps, and God in a way is patient and willing to wait to produce all these wonders and fruits as soon as we give our consent; as soon as we do as Mary did and say: “Okay, I don’t understand, I don’t know how it’s going to work out, but here I am. I am willing to make a fool of myself for your glory and the good of others.

There’s also something else that prevents God, apart from our free will and our willingness to make fools of ourselves for God and for our neighbour; there’s also all the problems relating to what we call our fallen human nature: our inclination to step into the shadows, to give in to our fears, to give in to our impulses to eat more, drink more, do whatever more and more and more… you know what I’m talking about… we’re all human beings here. We all experience these struggles, and what makes the difference between an ordinary human being and a Christian, a disciple? The ordinary human being is overly impressed by these dynamics and interior struggles and becomes paralyzed, incapable of taking action. The Christian stops relying on herself or himself and opens their mind, heart, and soul to God and asks the Holy Spirit to help, to strengthen; so, the key is no longer to depend on myself but to allow the Holy Spirit to train me to rely on God in every situation.

I remember when I was a young man and it was the beginning of the charismatic renewal. They told the story of a young person who wanted so much to do only what God wanted that they sat on their bed for half an hour in the morning unable to make up their mind what color socks to wear, waiting for inspiration from above, you know? Well, that’s sort of a childish ridiculous example. God wants us to make decisions, He wants us to use our brains, He wants us to get up and go, but to learn how to discern, you know, the inspiration that’s coming from God, and to tell the difference between that and the bad inspirations that come from the bad spirit, the enemy of humanity.

There are telltale signs: the enemy of humanity wants our destruction; the Holy Spirit wants us to enter into abundance of life as Jesus said: “That you may have my joy and that your joy may be complete.” If anyone is interested in knowing more about how to discern the interior contradictions that we have all day long and from day to day, send me an email: fathergilles@gmail.com and I will send you some links to Saint Ignatius of Loyola’s fabulous teaching on the discernment of spirits. It is acknowledged to be the best, the clearest, and the most practical teaching on these things in all of human history, literature or anything that has been written in any culture of language.

 

Glory be to the Father, and to + the Son, and to the Holy Spirit; as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

 Listen to Fr. Timothy Gallagher, OVM's simple and practical explanation of Saint Ignatius of Loyola's world changing teaching on "the discernment of spirits".

https://www.discerninghearts.com/catholic-podcasts/fr-timothy-gallagher-discernment-of-spirits/

 

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Full text: Pope Francis’ homily on Pentecost Sunday
Vatican City, May 23, 2021 / 05:00 am - PDF 

 https://www.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/homilies/2021/documents/papa-francesco_20210523_omelia-pentecoste.html 

“When the Paraclete comes, whom I will send to you from the Father…” (Jn 15:26). With these words, Jesus promises to send his disciples the Holy Spirit, the ultimate gift, the gift of gifts. He uses an unusual and mysterious word to describe the Spirit: Paraclete. Today let us reflect on this word, which is not easy to translate, for it has a number of meanings. Essentially, it means two things: Comforter and Advocate.

The Paraclete is the Comforter. All of us, particularly at times of difficulty like those we are presently experiencing due to the pandemic, look for consolation. Often, though, we turn only to earthly comforts, ephemeral comforts that quickly fade. Today, Jesus offers us heavenly comfort, the Holy Spirit, who is “of comforters the best” (Sequence). What is the difference? The comforts of the world are like a pain reliever: they can give momentary relief, but not cure the illness we carry deep within. They can soothe us, but not heal us at the core. They work on the surface, on the level of the senses, but hardly touch our hearts.

Only someone who makes us feel loved for who we are can give peace to our hearts. The Holy Spirit, the love of God, does precisely that. He comes down within us; as the Spirit, he acts in our spirit. He comes down “within the heart”, as “the soul’s most welcome guest” (ibid). He is the very love of God, who does not abandon us; for being present to those who are alone is itself a source of comfort.

Dear sister, dear brother, if you feel the darkness of solitude, if you feel that an obstacle within you blocks the way to hope, if your heart has a festering wound, if you can see no way out, then open your heart to the Holy Spirit. Saint Bonaventure tells us that, “where the trials are greater, he brings greater comfort, not like the world, which comforts and flatters us when things go well, but derides and condemns us when they do not” (Homily in the Octave of the Ascension). That is what the world does, that is especially what the hostile spirit, the devil, does.

First, he flatters us and makes us feel invincible (for the blandishments of the devil feed our vanity); then he flings us down and makes us feel that we are failures. He toys with us. He does everything to cast us down, whereas the Spirit of the risen Lord wants to raise us up. Look at the apostles: they were alone that morning, alone and bewildered, cowering behind closed doors, living in fear and overwhelmed by their weaknesses, failings and their sins, for they had denied Christ. The years they had spent with Jesus had not changed them: they were no different than they had been.

Then, they received the Spirit and everything changed: the problems and failings remained, yet they were no longer afraid of them, nor of any who would be hostile to them. They sensed comfort within and they wanted to overflow with the comfort of God. Before, they were fearful; now their only fear was that of not testifying to the love they had received. Jesus had foretold this: “[The Spirit] will testify on my behalf; you also are to testify” (Jn 15:26-27).

Let us go another step. We too are called to testify in the Holy Spirit, to become paracletes, comforters. The Spirit is asking us to embody the comfort he brings. How can we do this? Not by making great speeches, but by drawing near to others. Not with trite words, but with prayer and closeness. Let us remember that closeness, compassion and tenderness are God’s “trademark”, always.

The Paraclete is telling the Church that today is the time for comforting. It is more the time for joyfully proclaiming the Gospel than for combatting paganism. It is the time for bringing the joy of the Risen Lord, not for lamenting the drama of secularization. It is the time for pouring out love upon the world, yet not embracing worldliness. It is more the time for testifying to mercy, than for inculcating rules and regulations. It is the time of the Paraclete! It is the time of freedom of heart, in the Paraclete.

The Paraclete is also the Advocate. In Jesus’ day, advocates did not do what they do today: rather than speaking in the place of defendants, they simply stood next to them and suggested arguments they could use in their own defence. That is what the Paraclete does, for he is “the spirit of truth” (v. 26). He does not take our place, but defends us from the deceits of evil by inspiring thoughts and feelings. He does so discreetly, without forcing us: he proposes but does not impose. The spirit of deceit, the evil one, does the opposite: he tries to force us; he wants to make us think that we must always yield to the allure and the promptings of vice. Let us try to accept three suggestions that are typical of the Paraclete, our Advocate. They are three fundamental antidotes to three temptations that today are so widespread.

The first advice offered by the Holy Spirit is, “Live in the present”. The present, not the past or the future. The Paraclete affirms the primacy of today, against the temptation to let ourselves be paralyzed by rancour or memories of the past, or by uncertainty or fear about the future. The Spirit reminds us of the grace of the present moment. There is no better time for us: now, here and now, is the one and only time to do good, to make our life a gift. Let us live in the present!

The Spirit also tells us, “Look to the whole”. The whole, not the part. The Spirit does not mould isolated individuals, but shapes us into a Church in the wide variety of our charisms, into a unity that is never uniformity. The Paraclete affirms the primacy of the whole. There, in the whole, in the community, the Spirit prefers to work and to bring newness. Let us look at the apostles. They were all quite different. They included, for example, Matthew, a tax collector who collaborated with the Romans, and Simon called the zealot, who fought them. They had contrary political ideas, different visions of the world. Yet once they received the Spirit, they learned to give primacy not to their human viewpoints but to the “whole” that is God’s plan.

Today, if we listen to the Spirit, we will not be concerned with conservatives and progressives, tradition-alists and innovators, right and left. When those become our criteria, then the Church has forgotten the Spirit. The Paraclete impels us to unity, to concord, to the harmony of diversity. He makes us see ourselves as parts of the same body, brothers and sisters of one another. Let us look to the whole! The enemy wants diversity to become opposition and so he makes them become ideologies. Say no to ideologies, yes to the whole.

The third advice of the Spirit is, “Put God before yourself”. This is the decisive step in the spiritual life, which is not the sum of our own merits and achievements, but a humble openness to God. The Spirit affirms the primacy of grace. Only by emptying ourselves, do we leave room for the Lord; only by giving ourselves to him, do we find ourselves; only by becoming poor in spirit, do we become rich in the Holy Spirit. This is also true of the Church. We save no one, not even ourselves, by our own efforts.

If we give priority to our own projects, our structures, our plans for reform, we will be concerned only about effectiveness, efficiency, we will think only in horizontal terms and, as a result, we will bear no fruit. An “-ism” is an ideology that divides and separates. The Church is human, but it is not merely a human organization, it is the temple of the Holy Spirit. Jesus brought the fire of the Spirit to the earth and the Church is reformed by the anointing of grace, the gratuity of the anointing of grace, the power of prayer, the joy of mission and the disarming beauty of poverty. Let us put God in first place!

Holy Spirit, Paraclete Spirit, comfort our hearts. Make us missionaries of your comfort, paracletes of your mercy before the world. Our Advocate, sweet counsellor of the soul, make us witnesses of the “today” of God, prophets of unity for the Church and humanity, and apostles grounded in your grace, which creates and renews all things. Amen."

Franciscus - Bishop of Rome 

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Are we really "good enough Catholics"? Or does Jesus expect more from each and every one of us? Tuesday in the 2nd Week of Lent


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 Penitential Rite         Brothers and sisters let us acknowledge our sins and so prepare ourselves to celebrate the sacred mysteries.  

HOMILY

Do you know that people generally tell me they are Good Catholics? They believe that they are “doing enough” to satisfy God’s expectations. “We go to Church often enough. We give enough to the poor and to the Church. With regards to sexuality and other moral questions, we are good enough. Although this attitude seems to be almost universal, there is a question that bothers me and just won’t go away. Is being “good enough” really pleasing God our Father?

Come to think of it, I find distasteful people who seem content to be “just long enough” with me in person, on the phone, or by email. By contrast, I believe we all much prefer the person who enjoys our company so much that they lose track of time and almost miss an appointment. Our human heart, mind, soul, and body are made for relationship, and only authentic personal relationships are deeply satisfying and meaningful to us. This is real life. This is really living.

Why should eternal life be different? We have been designed for relationships with other human beings and also with God the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. John the Beloved Disciple, Apostle, and Evangelist in his Gospel in chapter 17 verse 3 recalls Jesus saying: “And this is eternal life, that they may know you, the one true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.” That means that by the gift of God, by his grace, we can already taste here and now on Earth how good it is to know and to love the Father and the Son Jesus Christ in the Holy Spirit.

The sad reality is that we don’t do the good we want to do, and we don’t always avoid the evil that deep down we don’t want to do, but we do it anyway. God is not pleased because He knows this is not how we can give meaning and purpose to our lives; this is not the way to love God, others, and ourselves with our whole mind, heart, soul, and strength. Because He truly loves us and wants our lives to become truly meaningful, good, and beautiful, God is eager to forgive us if only we are willing to confess to Him our sinfulness and seek his forgiveness.

Jesus hated the scribes and Pharisees because they were hypocrites who preferred pleasure and comfort rather than make room for others in their hearts. Jesus taught people to do what the religious leaders taught, because they were teaching the Word of God, but Jesus warned people not to imitate what they did, because they did not live in accord with the Word of God. The religious leaders did not care about people or about God. God wants us to care for Him as well as for others, because only then will we live truly of love and taste the goodness of our life.

It is hard for us to go to a priest and confess our sins. We don’t like to admit we messed up. Yet this is how Jesus wants us to reconcile with God, because Confession humbles us and makes us real. “Father in Heaven, help us put away our pride and humbly declare by confessing our sins that You are God: the Father, + the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Blessing and Dismissal

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Funeral Mass - Alice Winifred Marolly - Dec. 30th, 2020 - Sainte Suzanne Parish Church


Homily in MP3 mode file
        These Christmas Days we wonder at the marvelous light shining on the face of the Infant Jesus - and we get the message that all God wants of us is to share friendship and the love of family bonds. If we accept to receive what God offers; then He is free to give us all that He wants to give. However, if we don't accept to receive his offer; then He can do very little for us. In such a case, we isolate ourselves and are "on our own". This choice is ours not only in a potential relationship with God, but in all our relations.

Brief Communion Reflection - Closing Rites - in MP3 mode file            Alice Winifred Marolly obviously enjoyed a close relationship with her God, and this was reflected in how she related to everyone else, beginning with her family. How can we delve more deeply into fully engaging and rich relationships with others and also with God? It begins at every moment with "desire". We are so designed that there emerge within us many desires, but the key desire is to have a relationship with someone... with other human beings... and also with God. As long as we nurture this desire and do something about it; then the other can respond and reciprocate. If I stop desiring; then I shut the gate. 

At the cemetery - Bede Jarrett's poem prayer 


We Give Them Back to You, O Lord

We give them back to You, O Lord who first gave them to us;

yet as You did not lose them in the giving, 

so we do not lose them by their return…..

For what is yours is ours also, if we belong to You.

Love is undying, and life is unending, 

        and the boundary of this mortal life is but a horizon, 

        and the horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.

Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see further. 

Cleanse our eyes that we may see more clearly….

And while You prepare the place for us, 

        prepare us also for that happy place; that we may be with You, 

        and with those we love forevermore.

 

Prayer used by Fr Bede Jarrett, O.P. (22 August 1881 – 17 March 1934)

Written by William Penn (1644 – 1718)



The Holy Spirit helps us accept others and serve out of love. Sept 27th, 2020

Homily MP3 File 

            Good day dear brothers and sisters! It is good to be here, gathered together, in faith and in joy in the Presence of the Lord. It has been a difficult and perplexing week. Our public health authorities are very concerned – as we all are – about the rise in cases of Covid-19 infections in Québec. In fact the measures taken a week ago in the middle of the night between Sunday and Monday morning give the impression of a reflex action suddenly taken in a spirit of panic.

How else are we to understand such harsh measures to suddenly, and without warning or consultation, demand that churches reduce the maximum number of people for worship from 250 to 25 in the orange high alert region of Montreal? It takes at least a few weeks for churches to communicate effectively with all of their members. In addition, we could well ask the question: “Are churches in actual fact hot spots for the propagation of the virus?”

All reports indicate that it is in bars and other social centers where people mingle freely that the virus is most quickly propagated. Planned and spontaneous gatherings with no social distancing are also at high risk for spreading the virus that causes the Covid-19 infection. With our safety measures here in church we are quite safe from spreading the virus if any already infected come and don’t know they are carrying the virus. If we have symptoms of infection we all know we must stay home and of course isolate ourselves until the infection is over.

There are many other reasons why we experience trouble in life today. One reason is because of our faith in God. Our God the Creator of the universe is infinitely attractive and fascinating, and people are either drawn to God or else they turn away from God with anger and hatred or simply indifference. This is what happened to Jesus. In today’s Gospel, it is the time when Jesus is coming to the Temple in Jerusalem and will soon be arrested and put to death. The chief priests and elders of the people have hardened their hearts against Jesus and refuse to be impressed or even consider the truth of his words or the wonder of his miracles.

Instead they are obsessed with knowing what authority He claims to have and the origin of his authority. This is because they are convinced that Jesus speaks with authority and that He is a threat to their own authority over the people. Well, they are right. They refuse to consider that it is actually God who invests Jesus with authority and that Jesus is God’s own authority in Person. They refuse to accept that the authority that Jesus exercises is motivated by divine love.

For these and other reasons many people love Jesus and others hate Him. Through the prophet Ezekiel God showed the people how their way of thinking was unfair. God declared that if a good person abandons their goodness and turns to evil and does evil acts, and if they remain in their wickedness; then they will die and be lost. On the other hand if a wicked person has a change of heart and turns away from their evil ways and repents; then they shall not die but live and in this way they shall gain their life also for eternity. Some people don’t like the Lord’s ways because they are attached to their evil ways or to evil desires they keep secret.

The possibility that a good person might change and do evil might frighten us, but this is a warning to us to keep a guard over our hearts and remain vigilant over our words, attitudes, emotions, and behaviours. The Holy Spirit comes to us as God to bring light to our minds, hearts, and spirits and peace to our consciences and bodies. As we welcome the Holy Spirit He opens our minds, hearts, and spirits to Jesus, and it is Jesus who leads us and shows us the way in every moment and situation of our daily living. Jesus fills us with his love and the love of the Father and They show us how to love others in the same way that They love us.

Saint Paul teaches us to make efforts to “be of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others. Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus.”

The Holy Spirit can show us how to become more like Jesus if we are willing to pay close attention to the guidance the Holy Spirit gives us inside our own mind and heart. Let me give you an example. For most of my life since I was a child, I became aware of the ways in which other people were kind and good to me or, in contrast, how they were mean or unkind or rude or unpleasant and so many other ways in which people can be a cause of suffering.

Then, when I was middle aged, I suffered losses when two wonderful young priests who had lived with me were moved and assigned elsewhere. Soon after I suffered another loss when my time ended and I had to leave a parish where we loved one another. Then I found it painful to live with a certain priest and suffered additional grief after the death of my mother and then a year and a half later the death of my father. As a result I suffered a mild clinical depression. As I received treatment, I began to receive hints that it might also be difficult at times for other people to live with me. That possibility had never occurred to me until that moment. For many years I lived my life without thinking what it might be like for others to live with me.

That was a major turning point in my life. The light the Holy Spirit gave me, with the help of doctors and other health professionals and priests and women counsellors, opened a whole new chapter in my life. I was now able to relax in the presence of others and not worry anymore about how other people behave or whether I like their behaviour or not. I was finally able to accept others just as they are, just as God accepts all of us just the way we are. God still offers us divine grace and help to move away from evil and do more good and in this way to grow in our willingness to be loved and our eagerness to love others in the ways they need to be loved.

So let us continue to pray for one another that we might accept the encouragement and grace of the Holy Spirit to open wide our heart, our mind, our spirit and even our body to the presence and the love of God: the Father, + the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

Let us take a few moments in silence to reflect on this Good News spoken to us by the Lord.

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2021 Tous droits réservés Abbé Gilles Surprenant, Prêtre Associé de Madonna House Apostolate & Poustinik, Montréal QC

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